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#12 I am Dyslexic and Proud of it!

by Blog Post by Paula Rose

I have travelled the world and had three major careers, all of which I studied and worked hard for. I struggled through it all and wondered why my peers didn’t have the difficulties that I experienced. I didn’t know I was dyslexic until I was in my late forties. I was determined to get a Masters and attended Westminster College in Cambridge, England. The tutor spotted that may be dyslexic and asked me what I thought. I replied I never heard of the word Dyslexia, and asked, ‘what on earth is it???

undefinedDyslexia is a common learning difficulty that can cause problems and with reading, writing and spelling and other things.

Unlike a learning disability, intelligence isn’t affected.

It’s estimated up to 1 in every 10 people in the UK has some degree of Dyslexia. In many people, it appears to be hereditary. It is undoubtedly misunderstood, and I have had my fair share of nasty comments and shunning and told to ‘don’t tell anybody’ from well-meaning friends and colleagues.

Dyslexia is a lifelong problem, we are born with it. It can present challenges daily, but support is available to improve reading, writing and coping skills to help you to be successful at school and work.

What are the Signs of Dyslexia?

Signs of Dyslexia usually become apparent when a child starts school and begins to focus more on learning how to read and write.

A person with Dyslexia may:

  • read and write very slowly
  • confuse the order of letters in words
  • put letters the wrong way round (such as writing “b” instead of “d”)
  • have weak or inconsistent spelling
  • bad handwriting 
  • understand information when told verbally, but have difficulty with information that’s written down
  • find it hard to carry out a sequence of directions
  • struggle with planning and organisation

But people with Dyslexia often have excellent skills in other areas, such as creative thinking and problem-solving. These are only some of the symptoms, and you may one or two or more.

Getting Help

If you think you or your child may have Dyslexia, the first step is to speak to their teacher or their school’s special educational needs co-ordinator (SENCO) about your concerns. If you as an Adult, the dyslexia association will help advise you.

Support for People with Dyslexia

If your child has Dyslexia, they’ll probably need extra educational support from their school.

With appropriate support, there’s usually no reason your child can’t go to a mainstream school, although a small number of children may benefit from attending a specialist school.

Universities also have specialist staff who can support young people with Dyslexia in higher education. I received help after I was assessed as an upper percentile dyslexic. I could not have gotten through my university studies without this remail help. My dissertation scored a distinction which was a massive achievement for me!

Technology such as word processors and electronic organisers, speech to text software ware can be useful for adults, too. Employers are required to make reasonable adjustments to the workplace to help people with Dyslexia, such as allowing extra time for specific tasks.

Support Groups

As well as national dyslexia charities such as the British Dyslexia Association (BDA), there are several local dyslexia associations (LDAs).

These are independently registered charities that run workshops and help to provide local support and access to information. I know the emotional trauma a dyslexic can go through and so I also counsel dyslexic Adult so feel to contact me if you need help.

What Causes Dyslexia?

People with Dyslexia find it challenging to recognise the different sounds that makeup words and relate these to letters. Dyslexia isn’t associated with a person’s general level of intelligence. Children and adults of all intellectual abilities can be affected by Dyslexia.

The exact cause of Dyslexia is unknown, but it often appears to run in families. It’s thought specific genes inherited from your parents may act together in a way that affects how some parts of the Brain develop during early life.

We cant change being dyslexic, but we can change how we manage it and embrace it as a big advantage.

Brock, L, E. Etal. (2011) The Dyslexic Advantage: Unlocking the Hidden Potential of the dyslexic Brain. Hay House.UK.

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 Love & Grace

Paula Rose Parish IHS

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#11 Through the Pandemic of the Coronavirus – We Grieved

by Blog Post by Paula Rose

Where is our memory stored? The materialist’s answer is in the brain’s hippocampus for long-term memories and the brain’s neocortex. A more subtle answer would say that all memory is stored in the deeper level of consciousness. Alan Wallace said we don’t think that a computer’s memory is stored in the keyboard. Why should we think the brain makes us conscious?

Living in Australia, one of the places I practised nursing was in the Southern Cross Catholic Residential Home. One lady who was one of my patients suffered from late-stage Alzheimer’s and could not communicate at all. Her daughters decided they would tell her that her husband, their father, had died, although they knew she would be unresponsive. She was chattering meaninglessly and appeared to be in another world, but when they told her of her husband’s death, she stopped chattering, and tears rolled down her cheeks.

That may not prove anything scientific about memory. Still, it suggests something about consciousness surviving the atrophy of the brain just as it has been shown to survive the clinical death of patients under medical care. To see someone whom we have lived with and loved for a lifetime lose their memory and drift away from us is dying while alive.

Through this pandemic of the coronavirus, we grieve over the countless lives lost. Death seems to be ever-present with us in these days. We pass through death at many intensity levels in our lifetime (Psalm 23). And yet, as with this patient, a core of consciousness connects us. Even when all the signs show that awareness has flickered out.

The persistence of deep memory – and love is a kind of memory continuously remembered and renewed – does not negate death. Love, like faith, is eternal. This is because God is Love itself, and God is eternal. Our faith in Christ is deep within our consciousness and goes beyond our physical death, allowing heaven to touch the earth.

Deep memory/consciousness transcends death and shows that life is a tremendous constant beyond physical death. Life is inextinguishable; we are eternal beings. Consciousness is life, and memory shows that love is stronger than death. Personal relationships teach us this. So does Jesus Christ, who teaches that we are transmitted in a stream of consciousness of a living memory that connects us to our source, God, and connects us to each other while carried forward on our individual journey.

For all of us today, our individual journeys in life are connected by the threat and fear of the coronavirus. For some of us, it has already meant the death of loved ones. For all, it triggers the awareness of our mortality and the uncertainties of change that we cannot control.

In such dark times, however, the memory of life experienced as a spiritual journey beginning and ending in mystery, full of inexplicable pain and joy but also full of wonder.

It is faith in the end that frees us from fear. We are first exposed to our real predicament: not having a spiritual path in times like this, lacking a source of meaning, and not seeing the spark of life hidden in the darkness of our deaths. All these are symptoms of another virus rampant in our materialism and delusion. Faith in Christ is the remedy which overcomes the fear of death and dying.

Our spiritual life cannot be separated from our everyday existence, being isolated at home with others or alone: we can make a realistic timetable including the things we need and want to do and post it where you will see it through the day. Consider if it feels balanced for your daily needs. Does it represent your everyday regular needs? Such as physical needs, mental needs and spiritual needs?

Adjusting to a daily rhythm to fulfil your basic human needs is the first step to getting a handle on the feeling of fear, panic and uncertainty. It is a step to curing the virus of fear and panic. It helps us to see health, death, and spirituality differently, even during a pandemic. When we have re-connected to the sense of the present, trusting in God, we will find that peace – the peace we lost in all that stress – is closer to us, deeper within us than we had ever imagined.

Try this Out!

 Love & Grace

Paula Rose Parish IHS

For more articles, visit Your Wellness Matters at www.paularoseparish.com. And if this article has helped you in a small way, please like it and comment.

For helpful articles on converting from Protestantism to Catholicism and videos visit ALMOST CATHOLIC at http://almostcatholic.blog

Visit My YouTube Channel- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIHzAbvL5Wdjlh4Q57XHEDA

I have worked internationally with over 40 years of experience, having a Bachelor of Pastoral Counselling and Theology and a Master of Arts in Counselling & Professional Development. BACP Life Coaching Certificate. I currently work as a Christian educator, blogger, author, and grandmother living with my two dogs in Wales, UK. 

If you wish to connect with me, please do so at paularoseparish@gmail.com 

  ?Want to help support me as an author? My books are available at AMAZON. 

?Nothing Good about Grief:

?Psalm 23 Unwrapped: Hope in Difficult Times.